My picks:
Gmail - @Tutanota
G.Photos - @ente
G. Search - #searxng
Chrome - #librewolf and #ironfox
WhatsApp - @signalapp , #XMPP
G. Keepnotes - Markdown formet, @joplinapp @obsidian
G.drive - self hosted nextcloud or similar /proton
G.passwords - @keepassxc
G.auth - ente autu , aegis/separate keepass databases
G.calander - tuta calendar, offline calender
Play store - @fdroidorg #aurorastore
No VPN - @mullvadnet @ivpn #windscribe