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I think it's relevant to re-post an important blog post I've written, in the past.

https://novimatrem.gitlab.io/blog/2023/03/09/an-important-reminder.html

An Important Reminder


Hello, I thought it didn’t need to be said, but here’s something I’ve come to have to repeat recently:

just because you don’t like a trans person, for whatever reason, does NOT mean that the way you should be aggro towards them is by misgendering/deadnaming them, purposefully doubting their identity, or otherwise being transphobic towards them. that just undermines the rights and efforts of others, too, for no reason.

if you dislike someone, that’s fine, dislike them, but don’t show that in a way that would cause needless harm to others who did nothing wrong.

Don’t spread hatred and harm at or about a group of people, just because one person who happens to be a part of that group has caused you upset for completely otherwise (non-gender/transness/identity) related reasons.

#trans #blog #post
in reply to Novimatrem Whitehat 🐱 (she/her/hers)

Though, in this particular case, I was informed that the reason this particular individual is being transphobic to me (which, as the post mentions, doesn't only affect me), is because I have autism. Which, barely affects me, and isn't a reason to harass somebody for.
in reply to Novimatrem Whitehat 🐱 (she/her/hers)

Neither being an autist, nor being transgender is reason for being harassed. In fact, I wonder if there is any reason at all, unless you were the first to do it to the other person.
in reply to Novimatrem Whitehat 🐱 (she/her/hers)

@Amina I literally have no idea who they are, and only encoutered them through these replies from burner accounts made to harass me. if I'd ACTUALLY done anything wrong, I'd feel I deserved this- but, I have no idea what could drive them to be doing this, honestly.

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