@Rasp nah, the father just rolls the dice for the most probable gamete. 😀 The mother then picks out a gender she thinks will go nicely with it and dresses up the baby according to her culture’s traditions.

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This toot started as a joke and then I realized a lot of cultures keep kids’ gender relatively ambiguous until puberty when you’d do a coming of age ceremony and choose your final gender. So that really happens.